Social engineering
Romance Scams
Emotional manipulation over time that builds trust before asking for money, gift cards, or sensitive help.
What this scam looks like
- Someone you met online who quickly becomes emotionally close.
- Stories of emergencies, travel problems, or medical needs requiring money.
- Requests to keep the relationship or payments secret.
How it usually starts
- Message on social media, dating site, or email.
- Frequent, caring communication that moves off the platform.
Why it works
- Loneliness and trust are exploited over weeks or months.
- Victims feel responsible for someone they care about.
Warning signs
- Never met in person but asks for money
- Urgent crisis requiring gift cards or wire transfers
- Discourages you from telling family
What to do
- Pause before sending money or personal information.
- Talk to someone you trust outside the relationship.
- Verify stories through independent means.
What not to do
- Do not send money, gift cards, or crypto to someone you have not met.
- Do not share banking or identity documents.
What if I already responded?
- Stop sending money and break contact.
- Tell someone you trust — shame helps scammers.
- Report to the platform and local authorities if appropriate.
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